Saturday 29 November 2008

StrEnght and How to Have a Strong PersoNaLiTy???


Strength is the ability to achieve any goal in your life in a loving, honest, truthful, efficient and direct way. Strength requires motivation - and will power. Motivation has its source in your knowledge of usefulness and worthiness of your goal to be achieved. To find powerful lasting motivation to achieve a goal is missing as long as you are lacking clarity about worthiness of your goals to be achieved. Potential goals that lack true spiritual value are far harder or even impossible to achieve than goals of lasting divine value beyond this incarnation. If to learn to love or to expand your potential of love is your absolutely only purpose to do a particular work or job, then it is easy to connect to the sources of energy and divine bliss needed to acquire your strength needed to succeed.
Selfish goals however are difficult to achieve and the price for selfish goals usually is your life. Selfish people die - selfless people pass consciously through the door of death without dying.
Will power is the result of knowing about God and worthiness of your goal as well as the benefits of your goals for all creation. Will power is the determination to do and to give absolutely all to achieve your goal. Will power to achieve a goal requires a honest and sincere decision to achieve that one goal in mind.

How to Have a Strong Personality?

According to the Mr. Tasneem Moolla's oppinion, When the words ‘strong personality’ are mentioned, many thoughts come to mind. People have different opinions on this; some negative and others positive. The negative connotations of the words are that it refers to someone who is overbearing, demanding, arrogant and bossy. While the positive aspects far outweigh the negatives and include the following: a person who is confident in themselves, capable of leadership, shapes their own personalities and is not easily influenced by others, assertive, believes in and stands up for his rights, and has good self-control. The above are just some of the traits associated with a strong personality.
There are some people who believe that developing themselves physically will help them to have a strong personality. However, even though the word ‘strong’ seems to be used interchangeably, we should realize that a strong personality has more to do with the state of mind. Being physically strong does not necessarily mean that a person has a strong personality.
Expounding on the matter further, we find that many people believe that there is a distinct relationship between a strong personality and faith. They believe that a strong personality is very much related to the spirituality of a person, being religiously inclined and having a close relationship with their Creator.
To develop a strong personality, we should first, not judge or criticize anyone. We should be tolerant and overlook certain things. At the same time, we should be assertive if things are not right. We should also not have pride and arrogance. Being a hard-working individual is another point in trying to achieve a strong personality.

Simple Tips!
  • Know yourself
  • Be yourself. Always show people who you really are. Do not ever be fake or try to act like someone else . Let people like you for who you are.
  • Be confident in yourself and stick to your beliefs.
  • Learn to be assertive. Never be afraid to stand up for your rights.
  • Set goals for yourself and on a periodic basis, reflect on whether you have achieved them.
  • Let honesty be one of the main components of your life. Be honest with yourself, as well as with others.
  • Be a leader and not a follower.

Like every thing else in life, in order for us to achieve we must make a concerted effort. To develop a strong personality we have to make certain changes in our lives. The changes should not take place rapidly; instead we should work on trying to improve small areas of our lives at a time. Do not expect to change overnight, as everything takes time.
Nurture your soul with things that bring happiness to your life. Live life to your full potential and remember that a strong personality is not inherited, but something that needs to be shaped and polished over time.

Friday 28 November 2008

-LoVe means The strength of HEART-



For you who still were touched.. I far from a Muslim's perfect perfection still so many sins, the defect, contemptible and all the lacks that I had, but by all that I was still looking for the meaning of the truth of the life in the love, or the love in living..
Through each prayer and waiting of only patience that was held by me really whichever patience although i like that loved you only of Allah's blessings that were asked for by me, through his power we could be united in the association of the holy marriage the religion as well as laws. Because we humankind that lived social of the world law was needed by us and because we are God creation creature, really all the world laws were not meaning that when not having God desire. In each one of my breath tricks i was still firm in the meaning sincere, despite when later could not unite me was willing to let you go and realized that I not part of your left ribs. but, anything that will happen later i wanted you to know all about yourself, your story, even the lack that was had by you had not become the gap that narrowed my heart and reduced the feeling of the love that always only of your property.. although we, " I was happy to meet you, beside you, hugs you, and shared all the feelings that were acknowledged as the person of the 'love' really was the spirit's peace that was perfect when all that filled up my my life knew so many appreciations for himself and my heart was upper each one of your well-off affection your given to me, although many tears and your caress ordeal made i so the understanding the meaning the sweetheart's words ".

BUT WHEN THE LOVE DIED, HOPE DON'T BE TOO..

this is like a story about four candle supervised this:
There that four candle on. Each of them was finished trickled. The atmosphere was so quiet so as to be able to be heard conversation.
The first candle said: "i am a Peaceful, but humankind could not take care of me, then better i killed myself then!" and the end the candle went out.

That was candle second said: " i am a Faith, but i was not again useful. People did not want to recognize me, it was for that purpose did not have my use continued to be on ". the second candle was finished spoke, the gust of the wind extinguished him.

Sadly the turn of the third Candle spoke: " i am a love, but again well-off i to continue to be on, people no longer gaze at and thinking i was useful. They hated each other, even hated them who loved him, hated his family.

Without being waiting for a long time, then died the third Candle.
When a child at that time entered the room, and saw the three candles went out. because was frightened of the darkness, the child said: "what happened?? You must continue to be on, i was frightened of darkness!" and then the child cried sobbed. Then by be touched the fourth Candle said: " don't be frightened, don't be cried, while i was still being and was on, we continued always to be able to light the three candles" i am a Hope" with the eyes shone, the child took the hope Candle, then lighted again the three other candles. What had not died only available hope in our heart. It is hoped he could become the implement, like this child that in the situation anything could turn on came back Faith, peace, love in the hope that him!

"SoULmaTe"


What the meaning of the soulmate for you? The person who really was loved by you until you were willing to give the contents of this world to him or the person that was interbred by you on the commitment on behalf of the love? For me, the soulmate was during you to find the person who could understand what you wanted, could accept all the lacks and gazed at something with the point of view that same with you. definitely not the process that for a moment to be the aim? So, when we found the search end for the soulmate? The first couple, the couple now, or will have a new couple in the future? Only God that knew, isn't it?
The love came with all the surpluses and minus. our couple during that was previous was the story that passed, that was beautiful ought to be recalled, that mistakes made the lesson to be valuable to be not repeated in the story that now. When with your life couple that now many problems that blocked, stayed strong stayed fighting for the relations, could you be.because, when the limitation "could not" begin to be touched signal from the heart with the premission of the God must sound to ask for you stopped and must be soulmate actually that will change him.